"I am afraid," she said.
"I have been told that if you really love someone
you give that loved one the power to hurt and pain you in a way nothing else can."
"That is true," agreed the Shepherd.
"To love does mean to put yourself into the power of the loved one and to become very vulnerable to pain,
and you are very Much-Afraid of pain, are you not?"
-Chapter 1,Hinds' feet on high places
i am Much-Afraid.